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ONTARIO ADOPTION PROFILE - KELLY AND ITALO | |
CONTACTS:We would welcome your contact: If you prefer, contact our Adoption Professional, Kerry Vandergrift:
Hello, We want to thank you for considering us as adoptive parents for your child. Words can not describe right now how we are feeling as we write this letter, but "hopeful, excited and honoured" are ones that come to mind. We are humbled and respect your decision to make the best adoption plan for your baby. We can only imagine how strong and loving you are. We hope our words will give you comfort. Even though we haven't met, we've already started to love your baby. Our families are very supportive of our decision to adopt and will welcome you and your child along with us. We pray that you will make the best possible decision for your baby, and that you'll feel it in your heart if we are meant to be your child's adoptive parents. We hope that our profile will give you a glimpse of who we are. We wish you well and look forward to meeting you in person soon. About Us We have been happily married for the past 11 years. We met at work and right away we knew we were perfect for each other. Our attraction was based on our devotion to our families and on common interests such as our love for travel. We also enjoy going to the movies, going for walks, and seeing plays and concerts such as "Mama Mia", "Phantom of the Opera" and Celine Dion. Our marriage is based on love, commitment, family and trust. The best part of our relationship is that we are the best of friends. We laugh together and enjoy each other's company. We are fortunate to share and believe in the same traditions and beliefs based on the importance of family. We knew from the beginning that we wanted children since our families have always played an important role in our lives. Over the years we have grown closer as a couple especially as we experienced disappointments in trying to build a family. We have waited a long time to offer our love to a child. After struggling to conceive, we turned to infertility treatments. When we realized that having our own child was not possible, we turned to adoption. With the love and support of our families and friends, our journey to be parents has led us to you. About Kelly My parents shaped the person I am today. I got my sense of compassion and individuality, and my desire to help others, from my parents. I hope to pass these traits on to a child when I become a parent. Some of my favorite childhood memories are helping my mother make her famous Italian pastries called "Cannoli Siciliani." I hope I can teach your child to do this one day, too. I plan to stay at home for the first year to give your child the best possible start. Kelly's Family My parents come from Sicily. Our family is unique in its own way and we all share a very special bond. Our parents always put us first in every way. When I was seven, my mother died and my father remarried. Losing my mom was sad, but my stepmom provided me and my family with consistency and structure. Growing up in this way taught me the importance of family and gave me the tools and knowledge to become a parent. I cherish each and every day with my family and am honoured to have them in my life. Italo talks about Kelly Kelly comes from an Italian background and is a very loving person. She's given me her whole heart and is my wife and my friend. She`s the person I turn to when I'm having a bad day. In her spare time, Kelly enjoys trying new recipes and challenging herself. She loves shopping, gardening and watching movies, especially her favourite one, "Titanic." Kelly is very generous. Family is the truly the most important part of her life. She has always been there for our nephews, doing fun things with them, caring for them or just hanging out. She feels honoured to be their guardian. She is the type of person who always offers to help others without being asked. I know she will be a loving, caring mother and will offer your child a nurturing home. About Italo Like Kelly, I grew up in an Italian family where my parents instilled in me the importance of home. They provided me with a safe and loving environment--the kind that I hope to create for your child. Growing up in an Italian household, you have to love big family gatherings. I have great memories of getting together with lots of aunts, uncles and cousins. It was lots of fun. My mother would always prepare a nine course meal and by the end of the day no one could move. To me I feel it is important to sit down as a family for dinner every night and be able to discuss each other's day. It is also important to support each other in the family, and to be loyal. Italo's Family My parents are from Calabria. I am the oldest of two siblings. I have a younger sister who is married with two boys. I grew up in a family with parents who raised me with strong family beliefs and morals. Growing up we have always been a close knit family. Kelly talks about Italo Italo is a happy-go-lucky guy who loves to be around people. Once you get to know him he'll be your friend for life. He is a kid at heart. He makes me laugh and knows how to have fun. He spends all of his spare time with his nephews, taking them to Canada's Wonderland or just dropping by to see how they're doing. He is a very important part of their lives. In the summer months, he likes barbecuing and spending quality time with family. Italo amazes me everyday. When he sets his mind to something he gets it done, whether it is a small task around the house or a major project. He has taught me to relax and to take life as it comes. He is also helpful around the house--something I really appreciate! I know Italo will be a great dad. He is generous and loving and will always be there for your child. Some of Italo's favourite things to do are shopping, reading, hanging out with family, playing card games, and collecting movies. His favourite film is "Raiders of the lost Ark." Our Travels Travelling is one of our favourite things to do. Some of the places we've visited are Bahamas, Vancouver, Rome and Switzerland. We consider ourselves lucky to be able to travel. We appreciate the knowledge and experience that travelling has brought us. We want to expose your child to the world's many diverse cultures and to laugh and have fun together with us. Our Parenting Beliefs We want to give your child consistency and structure in their life. We believe in practising and reinforcing positive behaviour. We will encourage them to explore new things as they grow so that they can build self-confidence and express their individuality. We plan to cuddle them and to read them bedtime stories. Education is very important to us so we will help them with homework and science projects and attend all of their plays and sports event. As they start their journey into adulthood, we will encourage them to follow their hearts and guide them to make the best choices for themselves. We will teach them the importance of responsibilities and in caring for others. We will be compassionate and sensitive to their own needs, and we hope they will feel the same way towards us. Our parents taught us that children come first and we believe this, too. We plan to raise your child with unconditional love, strong morals and beliefs. Our Relationship with You We believe strongly in open adoption. We will make every effort in having contact with you. We hope to always maintain open communication through the exchange of letters, e-mails, and photos. We will cherish each and every day with your child and remind them that they are very much wanted and loved. Our Home and Community We live in Bolton, Ontario. Our home backs onto a children`s park in a rural community within walking distance of public and private schools. We're very happy living here. There are many families with children in our area and we think it's an excellent place to raise a family. Everybody knows each other and we can`t wait to fill our home with the sounds of your child`s laughter. Our community offers a wide selection of activities and facilities such as swimming, recreation and wellness centres, and has many parks and trails where we enjoy walking and biking. Our Values and Beliefs We believe that families are formed through different ways and are unique in their own way. We value our families and the beliefs and traditions they have given us. We've turned to our faith to help us deal with life's struggles. Baptizing our nephews has made us stronger. We know as a result of our love for our families and friends we are ready to be parents. Final Thoughts We believe in destiny and that we are put on this earth to share one common bond, love. Words cannot describe how fulfilled we would be in becoming a part of your baby's life. If you choose us we promise to love, nurture and protect your child. We hope that our words have helped you get a sense of who we are and what we can offer now and in the future. We can't wait to go on this journey with you! With our best wishes, |
Like the sunshine, our nephews light up our home!
A fun night out together.
Italo horsing around with our nephews.
Kelly and her Mother-in-law
Our nephews love their Aunt Kelly.
Celebrating Kelly's birthday with Italo's sister and her family.
Italo and his mom.
Surprise! Mom's b-day, a day out together with Kelly's family.
Sight-seeing in Switzerland. |
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